Loving Live Theater: Part I

From high school plays to Broadway and off-Broadway events, I enjoy going to watch these productions.

Years ago, while in high school, I was involved backstage in the makeup department for our productions. I remember the guys not wanting makeup! Ever try putting mascara on a guy? Good times! Especially when trying to assist them with their ‘coloring’ for West Side Story! I also remember going to Park Avenue with our advisor to purchase greasepaint for the shows. I never really wanted to be on stage, but loved being back stage!

Later on, I won tickets to see The Phantom of the Opera in Toronto. That was exciting! And definitely got me hooked on ‘the big stage’ shows. I made a few trips to Toronto from Rochester, New York over the years to see shows, enjoying the experience of each of them. I’ve probably seen Phantom a dozen times since, in many different locations, loving each production.

A trip to NYC for my daughter’s audition for a regional theater production, offered the opportunity to purchase TKTS for Les Miserables. Great seats and a another great production, using a revolving stage. Again, I love the ‘workings’ of live theater. The revolving stage worked well for this performance. I’ve probably seen Les Mis at least a half dozen times in many locations from high school performers to traveling theater troupes.

A later trip to NYC with a co-worker had us looking for something to do besides work while we were there. I did some research and found an off-Broadway show, called Menopause the Musical. This show has since moved up to be an ON Broadway show as well as being shown in many cities. Love this show and have also seen it multiple times. You’ll laugh til ya leak!

My love of live theater found me purchasing season tickets for the Rochester Broadway Theater League, where I had an excellent seat and enjoyed many shows.

While living in Las Vegas, I was able to enjoy many live shows and performances with my daughter, Karen. I sure do miss those days! I enjoyed writing about those shows in my now closed Las Vegas Show Stoppers group page on Facebook. Between Karen’s ‘plus 1’ invitations and my HouseSeats membership, we were very busy theater goers! See my other blog post about Loving Live Theater Part II: Vegas Style (coming soon!).

I’ve also been in the audience for a few Cirque du Soliel performances in Las Vegas, Orlando and Washington, D.C. area. Definitely a 3-ring circus trying to catch all the acts and watch all the actors do their amazing acrobatics.

We even enjoy (usually) live theater when we are on a cruise. You can usually find us in the ship’s theater after dinner for their nightly show offering. Usually a small troupe consisting of a couple lead singers and a handful of dancers, they put on several types of shows from variety to iconic and more.

I still have many of my original Playbills from the performances I’ve attended; below is a sampling. You might wonder what Twilight Tattoo is. It’s not a stage production but an actual live re-enactment performed by soldiers in the U.S. Army. What a great experience! If ever in the Washington, D.C. area and you can attend a performance, you will not be sorry! It actually sent chills through me as they represented different eras of battle to music.

It’s been a bit of a dry spell, theater-wise lately. But I have great memories of all the wonderful shows I’ve been privileged to watch.

The life you have led doesn’t need to be the only life you have.”
– Anna Quindlen

Out and About in Kissimmee: Part I

Our recent move to Kissimmee (Orlando) area will give us plenty of opportunities to visit and check out new places. Besides all things Disney, there’s Universal Studios, Sea World, Discovery Cove and of course the Tupperware Confidence Center! But before we can begin our explorations, we must first explore the DMV, local stores, salons and restaurants.

While I thought for sure our first exploration of the area would be the Tupperware Confidence Center, we headed to Winter Park instead! But only because the Center was not open on the day we were able to be out and about! Winter Park is a cute town, especially in the historic area. We started with the Farmer’s Market, where we enjoyed waffles smothered with fresh strawberries (me) and bananas (Karen). Then we walked along a few of the city streets and checked out various shops. We even managed to get in a pedicure for Karen and a manicure for me! Afterwards, as we drove away from the downtown area, we stopped at a diner for a late lunch.

Another exciting development is that we decided to buy a Sea World season pass. We’ve never really been to Orlando’s Sea World and the pass allows us to attend several of the special events so we felt it was a good idea. We plan to make that our next excursion when Karen has her next day off.

As has happened with most people, the COVID-19 pandemic has changed our lives and our plans. It left us little time to wander about our new area before shutting everything down. Once the threat passes, and we are ‘back to normal’, we will once again be out and about and writing about it. In the meantime, everyone please take care of yourself and your loved ones, buy only what you need, and most of all remember to be kind to others. I’ll be back soon with more travels and pictures!

Where to Next?

Well, right now, we don’t know. We canceled our plans to go to Australia and New Zealand for December 2020. COVID-19 canceled our plans for our Paris to the Swiss Alps river cruise. We have a friend who wants to experience a river cruise with us, most likely in 2021. I have a high school reunion coming up in 2021 in Rochester, NY, so I guess I can say that’s our next known vacation. While Karen has vacation time, the new job has different high volume times than we are used to at this point, so it will be a wait and see type of thing. But! We have already started checking out new river cruises and new river cruise lines! I’d love to go back to Holland at tulip time or perhaps visit St. Petersburg, Russia. We’ve already done much of Germany/Austria and the Mediterranean. I’d also like to visit Scandinavia but that’s an ocean trip, not river. I’ve heard Portugal is beautiful too. We like to visit as many countries when we travel as possible. Some river cruises are just 1 or 2 countries with several different port stops within. At this point, I’m either in for a Holland/Belgium river cruise or a Northern Europe ocean cruise. Time will tell!

“The use of traveling is to regulate imagination with reality,
and instead of thinking of how things may be,
see them as they are.”

– Samuel Johnson

Notripaphobia: the fear of having no trips booked

Paris to the Swiss Alps

Ship: Viking Herja
Dates: March 28-April 8, 2020
itinerary:

03/27/20 FridayDepart Washington IAD
03/28/20 SaturdayArrive Paris
03/29/2020 SundayParis
03/30/2020 MondayParis
03/30/2020 MondayBus to Trier
03/31/20 TuesdayTrier & Bernkastel
04/01/20 WednesdayCochem
04/02/20 ThursdayKoblentz/Scenic Cruise
04/03/20 FridayMaintz
04/04/20 SaturdaySpeyer
04/05/20 SundayStrasbourg
04/06/20 MondayBasel – Bus
04/07/20 TuesdayZurich
04/08/20 WednesdayZurich

Planning Status – July, 2019
We are about 8 months out as I begin this post. We have our Viking River cruise paid in full. Our non-stop air to Paris and return from Zurich is booked. Now it’s a waiting game until the Shore Excursions get posted. We are looking at current excursions and hope that most of them will be available to us. Many of the included tours are walking tours. We may or may not participate. It will all depend on my mobility at the time. Many river cruise walking tours offer a tour for those of us who cannot keep up with the faster walkers. Another variable is that we are going in March, so certain excursions definitely won’t be available due to weather. But, we are planners and planners start planning months in advance!

Planning Status – September, 2019
True to many past experiences with Viking, we found, once again, disappointment with their guest services, from their AirPlus division. We called to inquire about a possible business class upgrade, but upon finding out that Viking wanted to charge several hundred dollars more than the airlines, we declined. Unknown to us, a charge for the business class ticket was placed on our ship account. When we noticed this charge, to our previously zero balance, we called Viking. The agent we spoke to removed the charge and also removed our round-trip non-stop flights! Unbelievable! Luckily, we were able to, once again, contact Viking and re-establish our original flights. WHEW! It just seems that we are always experiencing a more than small difficulty with this company. A letter has been written to corporate about this latest snafu. Hopefully, we will get a favorable response.

UPDATE: We finally received a written response, as we requested, to our inquiry. We were given 24 hours to have them change our flights to business class. HAH! After all the time we waited for a response?! I think not. Besides it was more expensive that what it would have been had we’d booked it when we originally inquired. This is the type of guest services that we have come to expect and not care for from Viking. We were granted $100 OBC/pp for our inconvenience and to regain our trust in Viking.

Planning Status – October 2019
Our excursion options have finally been posted! It’s time to get serious about what we want to see and do while on this great river cruise! As I usually do with our trips, I started a spreadsheet for all the details – itinerary, excursions, misc information, etc.

Planning Status – December 2019
You know when the trip is getting closer and you can begin to get even more excited when the countdown calendar changes from months to days then from days to hours! Karen has been researching each port city to help determine what is feasible and what isn’t this time around. Lots of good suggestions from her efforts! Definitely looking forward to this calm water trip!

Planning Status – February 2020
Our documents have arrived! It just keeps getting more real every day! We are definitely looking forward to this cruise after moving out of state for Karen’s job. The stickler at this point? United Airlines will not combine our two tickets to create a seamless trip. Since moving, we have had to add on a connecting flight for us to reach our original embarkation point of IAD (Dulles). Viking couldn’t assist us even though we have AirPlus. United said they wish us luck and maybe a nice gate agent will check our bags all the way through to CDG (Paris), but not to hold our breath! So that means, we have to deplane in IAD, claim our luggage, check back in at the United counter, surrender our luggage again and pass a few hours waiting to get on our non-stop overnight flight to Paris. Not sure why it has to be this difficult? But, we will use the time wisely and head to Global Entry to initiate our address change and have a ‘decent’ airport dinner before our next flight.

Planning Status – March 2020
We are ready and raring to go on this much awaited vacation! BUT! With the current coronavirus, will our river cruise be impacted? It’s all the buzz on social media and the news. Cruise industry and tourism in general are suffering as a result. Daily, more people are stricken with the virus and many are dying. While we don’t wish to sound the panic alarm, we are seriously hoping that we do not come in contact with anyone who is carrying the virus. I’ve been watching my Viking Journey page religiously, but no cancellations or missing ports reported yet. Just 26 more days to go before we embark on this journey! Viking has just made an incredible offer to fully refund our trip with a voucher good for 24 months for future travel. We have decided to wait until 1 week before our travel date to make a final decision on whether to go or cancel.

UPDATE March 12, 2020

Viking has canceled our cruise due to CoVid-19. I guess that saves us from having to make that decision ourselves. If we had canceled earlier, we would have lost out on a much better offer for future travel. Now, we just hope that United Airlines will be kind and refund our flight from Orlando to Washington, D.C.

And that ends this blog post about our river cruise! Another cruise…another time! When the world is healthier!

Now, Voyager, sail thou forth to seek and find”
– Walt Whitman

No Guarantees

Customer and guest services just aren’t what they should be in most businesses. In today’s world, it’s all about the paycheck and being a ‘warm body’. The pride in doing a job well, well…it’s just not usually there.

I retired from managing a corporate guest service/trainer position with a major gaming corporation when I lived in Las Vegas. Prior to that, I was always in a position one way or the other where I was expected to do my best in taking care of customers for next to minimum wage. It’s called work ethic.

With the high usage of the internet, response time is expected to be quicker than taking days. It’s generally expected to be within a few hours, if not minutes, depending on a company’s expectations. When calling a business number to speak with a customer service representative, you are usually greeted with a recorded message reminding you that you can find the information on the company’s website. That doesn’t help much when you want to actually speak with a live person! I do, however, personally prefer to have everything in writing. And that has saved me over and over again. Most recently in dealing with a travel agent who promised, in writing, to extend a pre-paid gratuity and just days before we embarked were told that it was not paid to the cruise line.

Over the years, I’ve heard and read some pretty horrific stories, from workers spitting on food and then delivering it, to expecting guest services to hang the moon and jump through almost impossible hoops. Sometimes I wonder why some people feel so entitled? The way I feel is that no one forced you to take that job or that pay, you decided to yourself. If you don’t want to do the job as detailed, then quit and find your passion someplace else.

Today’s world presents what should be an easier attempt to receive customer satisfaction over the internet, with access to Contact Us forms. Generally, these are easy to use, unless your current situation doesn’t have a line item in the drop down box and you are forced to choose something similar. This happened recently to me. I received an empty envelope package (that was never sealed). I was instructed to return the item (that I never received). So, I took the empty unsealed envelope down to our concierge desk for UPS to pick up. I was informed they are not allowed to accept empty envelopes, but are apparently allowed to deliver them! I’ve tried contacting 5 different customer service email addresses and they’ve all bounced back without any information on who to contact other than referring me back to where I started. I’d really like a little help here, people. I’m out over $20 for the item never sent or received. I don’t think I should have to pay $20+ for an empty envelope!

UPDATE: Refund received. Threw away the empty envelope!

More unhappiness with my health insurance company. I’ve been fighting a $719 doctor bill since I was in the hospital in July 2019. The reason: The doctor in the hospital is out-of-network. Hardly my doing! I was admitted through ER and a patient in an in-network hospital. I’ve contacted my health insurance company numerous times and filed an appeal more than once. As of December, the doctor is turning me over to collections for non-payment. In talking to the insurance company, I offered to pay the $719, if I would get reimbursed. They did not recommend it as I might NOT get reimbursed because I used an out-of-network doctor! Sheesh!

UPDATE: I received a letter finally from United Healthcare saying they have reversed their decision and will pay the doctor! Months of calls, letters, appeals, perseverance paid off…FINALLY!

Another fun insurance item I’m currently working on is being denied a dental claim from a dentist who has since retired and sold his business. I’m sure you can imagine my frustration and the multiple hours I’ve spent on the phone and writing letters to get them to pay this bill. *sigh*

As I mentioned in another post, we decided to try using a travel agent for the first time in years. All because we wanted to receive extra benefits and discounts (who wouldn’t, right?). Again, no guarantees that you are going to get someone who loves their job and does it well. We didn’t, unfortunately. We’ve had to chase him down for answers over and over again. It seems he was more interested in getting the booking than maintaining it and establishing a good rapport and repeat business. Currently, we are discussing possible solutions with the CEO/Co-founder and the Director of Sales of the company, trying to come up with a compromise we both can live with. No guarantee that we will like the outcome, but at least we are still in the cooperation stage of negotiations.

UPDATE: After multiple emails with the CEO, they finally submitted for our refund. It was like pulling teeth to deal with this company. Definitely not worth it all in the long run.

Whenever I encounter poor guest services, it brings me back to my corporate job, where I supervised and trained almost 90 agents at any given time across the country and helped them achieve excellence in customer service. I just have a hard time dealing with people who don’t know or like their job. It makes me want to develop a business of training people how to be more effective with their customer service attitudes and professionalism. I did write a training manual and tested agents on a regular basis as well as coach them in using correct terms and responses. Yes, I was passionate about my job. If a complaint reached the corporate office and my desk, someone somewhere had a service failure. And there’s nothing worse than a ticked off customer who’s tried to resolve an issue and hit a brick wall. Believe me…I know!

Heres a little advice when trying to resolve an issue. Keep your temper, harsh tone quiet and some words unspoken. That’s not the way to win an issue. All you are doing is setting yourself up for a possible heart attack. If you don’t feel that you can speak calmly and reasonably, write a well-worded letter. The great thing about writing a letter is that you can write and re-write and word-smith the heck out of it to get your point across. Whereas, in a face-to-face discussion, there’s body language and little time to think before you speak. I have hung up on abusive callers who didn’t believe me when I said I would hang up if they didn’t refrain from using foul language! No one gets paid enough to be sworn at by an abusive caller. Years ago, in retail, a male customer called back 3 times before he talked calmly and nicely to me. We then proceeded to resolve his issue to his satisfaction in a much calmer, civilized manner.

There are certainly no guarantees that you will always find someone who enjoys what they do, knows how to do it and does it well. But most people are reasonable and will listen if you state your issue calmly and with a sense of professionalism. No one likes to be on the receiving end of a customer or guest who has fire in their eyes, a red face and is using loud profanity! NO ONE! As always, feel free to ask to speak to a manager or person in charge. Many times the employee is not empowered to resolve certain issues, sad but true.

Accept nothing less than excellence in customer service…always!