See Part 1 for Louisville and Lexington

CAUTION! Picture Overload! All photos taken with iPhone

Nashville

Our drive to Nashville, Tennessee was on a cloudy day, thankfully! After checking into the new Nashville Four Seasons, we spotted an American Cruise Line ship out our window. It was American Symphony in town for 2 days. We continued our walk to Garth and Tricia’s place – Friends in Low Places – for dinner and live music. Oh my gravy! The sidewalks were packed! Very stressful guiding my scooter among the day drinkers and party people. People do not like to share the cross walks or sidewalks. Almost took a couple of them out for not giving way and room to oncoming pedestrian traffic. Not my proudest moments but it woke them up a bit! Get your nose out of your cell phone and watch where you are going! We tried G&T’s wedding cake. It’s a pass but hey! Had to try it! We said good-bye to Garth and Tricia and headed over to say hi again to John Rich – John Rich’s Redneck Riviera – John honors veterans and first responders as do we. He just gives them their first drink on the house. There are patches from law enforcement and first responders all over the bar. We enjoyed the band but I personally wished they had stepped out of the 80’s rock a bit more and into the country side of things. Karen enjoyed herself though and sang and danced (sorry I’ve been sworn to not show the video!).

We planned a return visit to Puckett’s Restaurant. Still a great place for biscuits and gravy. Biscuits were fluffy and tasty. We brought some back to give to the front desk. There was no step up to get in so it’s easy for those using mobility devices. Brittany was a great server.

Small sprinkles told us it was time to go inside and take a much needed nap. Which was constantly interrupted with people slamming their doors shut. You know you can pull it closed quietly? Try it! It works!

Memphis

Our next leg of our flying road trip brings us to Memphis, Tennessee, home of Graceland and Elvis Presley. We stayed at The Guest House, which offered shuttle transportation to/from the airport and Graceland Mansion and our tour. Also on the grounds is the world’s largest Department 56 showroom. Yes, we bought something! The hotel shuttles have handicap lifts which made it easy to get on and off. Before our 4PM (don’t arrive early!) Karen returned the car at the airport and rode the shuttle back to The Guest House. The mansion that the Presley family lived in shows Elvis’ unique decorating tastes and likes. The tour did not permit an upstairs visit out of respect for the family’s wishes. Presley Motors has impressive cars and motorcycles. There’s a chapel on the hill beside the hotel.

Every night in The Guest House there is a special snack offered – PBJ sandwich and chocolate milk. The line is long but moves fast. Another Elvis treat was his deep-fried PBB sandwich – peanut butter and banana, served with vanilla ice cream and drizzled with chocolate sauce. Wayyyy too sweet! But yes, we had to try it! You can get it a the hotel restaurant EP.

Elvis’ Closet

Presley Motors

Department 56

All too soon it’s time to grab the early shuttle back to Memphis airport and return home. To rest up for the next trip coming up very soon! My body is taking longer to recover from our trips but I still have some more in me! Stay tuned for the rest of this year’s road trips and cruises!

Thank you…..thank you very much!
Elvis Presley

This trip incorporates a few things:

A road trip with my traveling partner and daughter.
An opportunity to visit a couple of states so Karen can reach her goal of seing all 50 states.
A chance to see a Kentucky horse farm up close.
An opportunity to visit Memphis/Graceland and stay at Nashville Four Seasons as well as visit the home of the Louisville slugger.
Adding a few more ornaments to our already overburden trees!

CAUTION! Picture Overload! All photos taken with iPhone

Our alarms woke us up at o’dark thirty for an early flight to begin this episode of flying road trip. We arrived in Louisville, Kentucky and picked up our rental car. Nice that AVIS upgraded us but wow! Too big! Land yacht! We rented a sub compact SUV and received a full-sized which we promptly traded back down to more manageable size.

Louisville, Kentucky

Leaving the airport, we headed straight for Flame Run glass studio to design and make our Christmas ornaments. This glass factory operation is considerably smaller than the Fenton Factory that I have visited and certainly neither factory compares to Corning Glass works. Years ago a club I was active in designed and produced a commemorative piece of glass with Fenton. As a result I self-published a book on Carnival Glass Commemoratives. Fun project! At Flame Run, we had a personal glass blower (Steven) working the molten glass and putty. The finished ornaments were mailed to us. Have to say I’m a little disappointed in how they turned out but it was still a very neat experience!

After completing our glass projects (round ornament for Karen; snowman for me) we shared a burger and fries at Mussel and Burger Bar. Our server, Mina, was great. The burger was tasty. The truffle fries temperature could have been warmer. But after a nasty snack and drink on the plane, the food hit the spot.

Next stop – Louisville Slugger Museum & Factory. Lots of history in a piece of wood that is meant to whack little round objects into the outfield and over the fence. Our takeaway was some wooden knobs from the bat ends that we will make into ornaments and mini Louisville slugger bats. No part of the tree is wasted – a local turkey farmer gets all the shavings and sawdust for his turkey’s home.

Lexington, Kentucky

On our way to Lexington, we took a little detour into Indiana. Another check mark on Karen’s 50 states list. And an interesting start to our September vacation with a Lewis and Clark theme. The closed roads to get to Rosie the Riverter’s statue kept us from being able to see it, unfortunately

Our hotel check in at Hilton’s Sire Hotel was smooth, We rested just a bit then headed out in search of food. Our Goodfellas calzone was tasty. A beer and Diet Coke later landed us back up in our room where we stayed for the next two nights. What is our luck with these hotels? Are our industry standards too high? More reviews to write!

Our early mornings net an early night. Another early alarm will go off all too soon..

Our excursion today is to a local horse park. Can’t come to Kentucky and not see the horses or taste the bourbon.

Kentucky Horse Park – 1200 acres devoted to all breeds of horses. See the special horse portrait gallery below.

Horse Portrait Gallery

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“Live life with no excuses, travel with no regret.”
― Oscar Wilde

Check Out Part 2 – Nashville and Memphis

Caution!
This post has lots of pictures! My photographer makes it the hardest part about posting!

Not wanting to cross the pond on another long-haul flight, we started researching things to see closer to home. Even though I grew up in New York State, I had never visited the New England islands – Nantucket, Martha’s Vineyard, Block Island.

We selected an American Cruise Line itinerary for this trip. I love counting down to a cruise date! This cruise line has an agreement for pre-cruise stays with Four Seasons in several disembarkation ports. Karen has spoken to several guests who are traveling down the coast from Washington, D.C. Many have stated they enjoyed the cruise line and several have been on more than one trip with American Cruise Line. We may just be the youngest on board!

Our flight from DCA to Providence on AA Eagle first class netted me a broken seat. No refills were offered but we did receive premium snacks for the short flight. My scooter was waiting and set up when we deplaned. Please understand that this rarely happens. We are usually waiting in the jet way long after the crew has deplaned waiting for my “priority” scooter to be brought into the jet way. Our bags were already waiting for us in baggage claim. Cabin temps on the plane were deep freeze. 

Union Station Brewery was a stone’s throw from our hotel so we had decided to eat dinner there. Nice concept in an old railroad station, but…
…Not handicap friendly. 20 steps or go thru garage of Courtyard Hotel
…have fun navigating the maze in the restaurant.
…2 pieces of fish overcooked; the fries were undercooked. Pet peeve? Putting my fish on top of my chips/fries which leads to soggy fries from the fish on top. 
…Wings were ok. Good buffalo sauce.
…Restaurant choice was not worth the money.
…Coke products. 

Omni Hotel Downtown Providence –
I’ve never stayed at an Omni property before and don’t see me rushing back ever again. Lots of money; very disappointed in room quality for nightly rate even though it was a big room. Clock is set on the wrong time. The bathroom layout is odd. Bedspread/ sheet soiled/stained. No table just a desk/chair. And another larger chair across the room which is soiled/stained.  Hair in shower. The location good which is why we chose this hotel. No airport shuttle. Mini fridge on floor. Keurig in room. Noisy HVAC. Shower faucet corroded and disgusting. Never sent receipt by email. Requested one again and then received 4 copies. Management response was to offer an upgrade the next time we stay at Omini. That’s not going to happen! I always wanted to be a ‘secret shopper’! No way would this Omni pass for their fourth star!

Fall River Embarkation
Originally at check in, we were sent to wrong cabin by the hotel manager. Gangway requires walking up 3 steps and across into the boat. Elevator is a single person big enough for scooter. and is often stuck on another floor because it was not closed properly by a previous user. Only one chair on balcony. Sail away party on the top deck heading to New Bedford. Ended the day with Paul who played guitar and sang popular songs. 

New Bedford, MA
On our own today after the Acuchnet harbor cruise, where we learned about and saw many different fishing boats. We saw the Palmer Island lighthouse.  Went through hurricane gates. Back to boat for lunch. Planned to take the trolley but not really handicap accessible. So we walked to the glass museum. Strange that it has a nice handicap ramp but a thick step up into the museum. Then downstairs for glass and gift shop. Walked to NPS Visitors Center where we got our NP stamp on a map and postcard and then on to the whaling museum. Easy to get around both with ramps and elevators. Clean restrooms in Visitors Center. A full-sized masted model ship along with whale skeletons were located inside the New Bedford Whalibg Museum. Check out the width of an adult’s tail. We bought our first ornament souvenir. A whale tail made from local glass and artist. On our way back to the boat we stopped for some yummy ice cream which melted almost faster than I could lick it! It was a beautiful day and we enjoyed doing what we do best.  Enjoying our own private day. 

ADA tip: Crosswalks are covered cobblestones for ease with mobility devices. 

Martha’s Vineyard, MA
We rented a car and did our own thing. Hertz sign up was incredibly easy. Upgraded from compact to a SUV. On our drive we saw several lighthouses. We ate a quick snack of haddock bites at Fishbones in Oak Bluffs. We checked out the gingerbread houses in Oak Bluffs. The gingerbread houses are listed in Atlas Obscura. After returning the car, we ate lunch at The Black Dog. A whole block of Black Dog products including bakery, restaurant and tour boats. Portable ramp available to enter Black Dog restaurant’s step up. Outrageous pricing on the lobster roll which was not on the menu but a ‘special’. Thought I was at Four seasons for a moment!!

More retail therapy – Bought a couple T-shirts and postcards. 

The scooter and I are taking a beating in the brick sidewalks and large crushed stone parking lots. I keep expecting to lose a wheel anytime now.

Most houses are in a shade of grey cedar shake tiles. No pharmacy found. Gas was pricey. Hydrangea fence in full beautiful bloom. The island was so colorful with the large…huge!…blossoms and bushes everywhere we looked.

Many stores were either closed or inaccessible for scooters. Many had at least 1 step up to get in. I curbside shopped as Karen would go in the store and select items to bring out and show me. It worked! Almost too well!

We enjoyed our dinner conversations with single traveler, Ed, Angie and Vanessa (mother/daughter). First food mixed up. Was not overly happy with the situation. But stuff happens. Duke Duo entertainment was very good. 

Nantucket
We took the fast ferry to Nantucket. Cute tourist area. Walked to Brandt Point lighthouse. Had lunch at Stubby’s, courtesy of the ship. Then a bus tour to see Nantucket.

We stopped for a Whale Tale Pale Ale and some deep fried dill pickles. Boy did they hit the spot that needed hitting! More shopping before time to catch the last ferry back to our boat. A couple more t-shirts to add to our laundry pile! Found a perfect ornament that has hand painted hydrangeas, Lighthouse and sailboat. Simply Nantucket.

Block Island, RI
Sadly we missed a pre-arranged private tour when we couldn’t enter Block Island harbor due to heavy fog and moored boats. Onward to Newport!

Newport
Today was our lobster bake at Fort Adams. It was pouring rain so we were thrilled to learn we only had to get wet getting from the boat to the fort. The meal was served inside. Afterwards, we headed back for dry clothes and to wait out the rain before heading into town for retail therapy and a private antique car tour in a ’24 Studebaker with the top down and my scooter in the front seat! A bit chilly at times but fun to see people point and stare at the car. Headed towards the Breakers and the mansions. Had our picture taken in front of Jay Leno’s house. Afterwards we were dropped back at the boat, changed for dinner and then enjoyed the evenings entertainment. Lights out after we put our suitcases outside the door. Another day of traveling home tomorrow after an early breakfast. Boat provided shuttle to the airport.

 “Once the travel bug bites there is no known antidote,
and I know that I shall be happily infected until the end of my life.”
― Michael Palin

Beacons of light everywhere!
Spotted West Chop, East ChopGay Head, Edgartown, Brandt Point, Sankaty and many others!

Boats, Boats and More Boats!

Island Houses and Buildings

Misc and Fun Stuff

NE Island Flowers
Big, beautiful hydrangeas everywhere!

Shout outs to…
Ed from Mechanicsburg, PA
Angie and Vanessa from DelRay, FL
Sarah and Grandma from NJ
Jarrett deck crew on gangplank. 
Hope, new server her first week on the ship
Alicia, Hotel Manager who made some goofy situations right
Many managers and staff who helped with the elevator 
Justin, deck crew gangplank. Wish I could have brought him home!
Jordan, youngest bartender. Kept Karen happy with Wine\beer refills
The pastry chef – with little to no training and reading directions, she put forth some amazing desserts

I have to say that even though I can be very particular about guest services (anywhere!), American Cruise Line bends over backward to make sure you are happy, have a free drink in your hand, enjoying yourself, not stuck in the elevator and you might even get a napkin rose or a magic trick from one of the managers. Was I impressed? Yes, for the most part. Did we book another cruise with ACL? Yes, we did!

Here is our second installment on Flying Road Trips. Like most travel days, the alarm is set and a list of things still to pack or take care of grows  we chose a noon flight out of DCA. At the airport we heard clapping and excitement. An honor flight from Iowa arrived with many veterans   What a privilege it was to welcome these honored veterans to our nation’s capital!

The short flight to Atlanta was full of bumps but we arrived early. From touchdown to driving off the car rental lot it took us 2-1/2 hours! So we managed a quick pit stop on the road and even though it’s not in the book, I’ve dubbed this guy Paul Bunyon of Tires (Atlas Obscura?).

Then it was heavy traffic to navigate to the hotel. Today’s special event? Catching up with high school classmates that I haven’t seen in over 50 years. Kathy Hinds and husband Tony Wolf joined us for dinner at Bar Margot .  Have to say I was very disappointed in our table service. We notice these things unfortunately due to both of our hospitality backgrounds and known company standards. Oh well. The conversation never stopped for over 3 hours!  What a great ending to the day! 

Day 2 Road Trip Day

The only time I get up by an alarm is for early morning doctor appointments and when on vacation. Being retired does have some perks besides a senior discount!  But another day without a nap?  We’ll see how I do!,  

Our first stop on the road was to a town called Dahlonega that Kathy mentioned it to us, so of course we slid it into our itinerary for the day. Hopefuly a good breakfast stop .  No on the breakfast but a tasty chicken salad with (not enough) fresh Georgia peach pieces on a croissant shared with Karen. We had German meal plans for dinner. 

Ultimate destination? Helen, Georgia. A cute Bavarian town nestled in the Blue Ridge mountains. Before Covid changed everyone’s plans, we had reservations to visit their Christamas market. But before we wander around Helen, we headed a few minutes outside of town for a nature walk (bears?) up the steeply-paved ADA trail to Anna Ruby Falls. Wow!  Tallest falls in Georgia. There was some doubt and anxiousness about my scooter’s capabilities from the gift shop lady and Karen, but it tackled the task like a pro. Now if it only had shock absorbers. We always try to do something different and/or interesting. This side trip checked that box. We headed back down the “road to Hana” route in search of a much needed pit stop. The falls are so powerful. As we were driving next to the very rocky creek we could hear water rushing by. Lots of picnic spots. Pack a lunch and take a hike!

Being a clock watcher and working at keeping us on a flexible schedule, it was time to drive to Helen. About 15 minutes away. Karen enjoyed a German beer at King Ludwig’s  Biergarten while we rested for a few minutes. We visited many shops. And of course added to our travel ornament collection with a couple unique finds.

When we were in Germany last year we opted out of the Heidelberg excursion. We ended up having dinner at Helen’s Heidelberg restaurant for some German food. I had pork scnitzel, hot German potato salad and spaeczle (not my favorite. Will pass on this side in the future). Karen enjoyed a Rueben sandwich with lots of lean corned beef pronouncing it the best corned beef she’s ever tasted. We ended the meal with shared hot apple strudel. Again we’ve had better strudel overseas and in San Antonio. But we are fussy when it comes to some things! We brought a huge Bavarian pretzel back with us for tv snacking later. Early bedtime after relaxing to watch a couple of favorite shows. 

Day 3

Fly time. Our flying road trip is coming to and end and we already have another flying road trip planned. This one will knock a couple states off Karen’s list helping her reach her 50th state years before I even completed my 50 states! So breakfast at the hotel.. pack..drive to airport for a midafternoon flight back home. 

ADA- free handicap parkin g in Helen. Some rubble on the sides. Sidewalks all were well marked and had ramps. 

The buildings had some beautiful murals and decorations. I can’t imagine Helen, Georgia at Octoberfest or Christmas!,  yikes!  

I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on the list.

When the road is too long to drive ‘there’, we fly to a central location, rent a car and start our road trip. Where to this time? We flew into New Orleans and stayed at the Four Seasons.

We got up at o’dark thirty and took an Uber to DCA (Reagan National Airport). We boarded our plane, sitting in the comfy seat section. Soon we had a flight attendant, Gilbert, paying us particular attention. It was my birthday! He was so nice…While I was away from my seat, he taped a napkin birthday greeting to the bulkhead and left me a small snack package of donuts and an American Airline wing pin. Not only that but he announced to the entire plane that it was my birthday! The co-pilot also made a similar announcement. I was now ‘famous’! Both the co-pilot and pilot came out of the cockpit when we landed and wanted to know who the birthday girl was…ME!.. It’s ME! LOL Funny thing is that another passenger on the plane was also on our return flight and wanted know if I had a good birthday in New Orleans.

Since I didn’t care for either lunch offering on the plane, I was hungry. Gilbert put together. a fruit bowl and bagel for me while Karen ate the fritata. To have a choice between an asparagus and mushroom fritata or a salmon something just wasn’t anything I wanted! We grabbed a delicious chicken sandwich and fries in the hotel lounge and met another nice Four Seasons employee. She also knew it was my birthday and brought a sparkler sampler for us to enjoy. Back to our room for a short nap! Early flights mean a nap is in our future.

My birthday dinner was at the hotel. A co-worker of Karen’s recommended the pork chops, so that was what I ordered. She was right – they were delicious! The wait staff was extra attentive and lit up the room with a sparkler assortment of treats. Our room amenity was a little can-shaped tube cake and a couple of beverages. Karen however, outdid that little cake with a wonderfully delicious birthday cake that she special ordered for me. We each had a piece and ended up giving the front desk the rest of the cake. We were thanked by several employees for the cake later.

Day 2
We loaded my scooter – which survived its airplane ride unscathed – in the rental car and took off to a town I’ve wanted to see since starting to watch the show, Home Town namely Laurel, Mississippi. I applaud the efforts of Ben and Erin Napier to revive their hometown. We parked our rental car near the Scent Library, but did not go in. I was afraid the smells I might encounter would set off allergies. So off we went for lunch. We had decided to eat at Pearl’s. After lunch we went on a search for the Laurel billboards and welcome signs on the buildings. We then strolled around and visited Laurel Mercantile and Ben’s woodshop, the Scotsman. Lots of nice items in the store attached, but rather pricey. We did purchase, of course, an ornament to document the visit. The ornament is in the shape of Mississippi, made from a piece of an old quilt. Love handmade ornaments! Ben was not at the shop but you can see into it. We wandered around some more and decided we’d ‘been there, seen that’ and headed toward home base back in New Orleans. Karen did all the driving of course and we were both tired when we got back to Four Seasons, so after reviewing our late dinner options we decided to stay in and order room service.

Day 3
Our plan was to take a walk to Jackson Square and Cafe Beignet. We are not Cafe duMonde’s favorite fan. So we found the closest location for the Cafe, and did not enter as there were several steps that really don’t work well for a scooter or mobility impaired patrons. So, we decided to go to the original Cafe duMonde a couple blocks away. The lines were long and there was a local group playing the iconic New Orleans music and then a single singer belting out Bob Marley songs – you know 3 Birds, everything is gonna be all right.’ We then found the ramp to overlook Jackson Square and eventually went down to the area in front of the church. I’ve been to New Orleans several times and always love the Jackson Square area. Soon it was time to head back to the hotel along the RiverWalk, check out and head to the airport for the flight home. Surprise of surprises, I ordered the in-flight meal and enjoyed it again as I had the first time on a previous flight.

Like this fly/drive post? Watch for another one coming in a few weeks…Where to? You’ll have to check back to see!

Our thoughts on Laurel, MS and our time spent there:

• It is much larger than the Home Town depicted in the show. I grew up in a rural area for my Home Town – more of what I thought it would be.
• Still a charming area; lots of business opportunities. Revivals still being worked on around town.
• Good mural hike to find them all.
• See the buildings in historic downtown for some of Ben and Erin’s remodels. Drove around quite a few residential streets but couldn’t put a finger on any one remodel in particular that we had seen on the show.
• Pearls – came on Ben’s recommendation I believe. Well we wished we had skipped it. Both our meals were served to us cold and it was all supposed to be hot food. We were so excited to taste Pearl’s fried chicken. We had chicken, fries (over cooked and wimpy), Mac and cheese (upcharge if you want this) and a corn muffin (I’ve had better!). Lunch was over $50 and we threw most of it away.
• Sidewalks, crosswalks and curb ramps are in pretty good shape but may be difficult for some to navigate due to the edges on the ramp..
• Stores and shops are clean and well stocked. Bring your wallet…it’s not cheap to buy a souvenir! Ben’s wood items were very nice. The Laurel Mercantile had a wide range of items.
• My personal scooter got me around New Orleans and Laurel. Only got off the sidewalk proper one time and Karen gave me a boost back on. I will say that besides cobblestones and bricks, multiple railroad and cable car/trolley tracks as well as large separators in the sidewalks are not my favorite! My scooter does not have shock absorbers!
  
  We enjoyed our visit to Laurel, MS, city for HGTV’s Home Town show. I hope you like the pictures Karen took with her iPhone of our visit.

I hope the days come easy and the moments pass slow
and each road leads you where you want to go

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Happy Place – VEGAS!

I loved living in Las Vegas. I’d still be there except that someone higher up had a change of life plans for me. After my husband of 40 years passed away, my daughter, Karen, and I decided to leave Vegas. We both had houses to sell, stuff to donate and more stuff to pack.

In the years (2013-present) we’ve been roommates we’ve made a few moves across the country and interstate. Florida twice; Virginia twice; Texas. Each place was an experience for us both.

But, I still love Las Vegas! I consider it my second home after New York.

We enjoyed the company of ‘old’ friends while we were there. Bernie, Roger and wife Velma but missed visiting with others who were out of town – Mitchell on a fabulous cruise, Robert back home for a Philadelphia visit and others who were working their shifts while we were there.

Sunday, as usual, we rented a car and planned to head to Mt. Charleston. This is where we decided to lay my husband to rest – up on the mountain with a view and local animals frequenting the spot. We always start the day with breakfast at Karen’s favorite spot – The Cracked Egg. Sadly, we found out that the road to where we needed to get to was closed due to flooding…on the mountain top! So, we tried to visit Karen’s Dad in other ways – such as visiting where we lived, visiting his favorite casinos (Eastside Cannery is CLOSED!) .We drove around a bit then returned the car and had a lazy rest of the day. Had some slot fun too, but I really don’t like the newer big video slot machines. The Vegas weather was cold! It was actually warmer in Virginia while we were in Vegas! Just a disappointing day and of course the main reason for our trip. This is most likely my last trip while I’m alive to go to Vegas. At some point, Karen will take me to join Ed on Mt. Charleston.

Surprise at the pool – I had a face in my face from behind me and on my blind side. Besides being startled a bit, I didn’t readily put a name to the face. Doctor… from when I lived there? Noooo… Oh my gosh! It’s my podiatrist and wife from Alexandria, VA, in Vegas at the same time, staying In the same hotel! I didn’t recognize him so up close and personal and without his white coat and usual surroundings! It is indeed a small world.

Monday breakfast and quick re-pack then off to the airport. Once again Karen did an excellent job with all the details. I’m just sorry it didn’t go quite as we had hoped and planned. I know she was disappointed.

Traveling is about finding those things
you never knew you were looking for.
–unknown

My fall concert tour – music that fills your heart

Chapter Fifteen

Normally I don’t ‘do’ concerts. They are usually at night and crowded. With limited vision, this raises my anxiety levels. But, when I heard 40 Fingers was coming back to the States, I knew I’d see them again – but twice? Oh YEAH!

40 Fingers – Birchmere Music Hall, Alexandria, VA

The 4 guys and their 40 fingers and the music they create, has calmed me down more than once especially during my lengthy hospital stays. They are extremely talented. They do not sing but they do know how to strum guitar strings! Karen is humoring me by taking me to see them twice while they are in the states again this year.The guys played for 2 hours. A lot of strumming was done! Audience participation was encouraged and there were some shenanigans from the guys as well. It was an enjoyable concert except for the guy’s head blocking my view! Birchmere offers a unique seating system – you arrive early and get a number. When your number is called you show your tickets and find the best seat available. Many people get a ticket for up to 6 people to enter. So even though we were #15, the front tables were mostly taken. I don’t like getting squished in between people so we went to the far end of the front row table so we could turn our chairs towards the stage. Next time, front row seats!

40 Fingers – Philadelphia, PA

Second verse, same as the first! (See above). Karen humored me again as we decided to camp out at the Four Seasons Philadelphia to see these guys once more at City Winery, a nice venue..

It’s joked that the member tipping his head towards mine only likes women over 70…I qualified! LOL

ABBA Tribute – MGM Oxon Hill, MD

More ABBA? Sure why not! We enjoyed our visit to Stockholm, Sweden and the ABBA Museum. We’ve enjoyed their music for years. This will be the second time seeing an ABBA concert. The first time was with the original 4 members.This time, the bass player was a member of the original ABBA band. I can see the MGM Hotel/Casino from my bedroom window. We’ve driven by it many times but never entered. MGM had their fall decorations on display.

Michael Cavanaugh – Baltimore Symphony

Michael Cavanaugh is a very talented musician. So talented in fact that Billy Joel chose him to star in Movin’ Out on Broadway. Micheal is currently located in Las Vegas, where we saw him when we lived there. He used to play dueling pianos at one of the casinos. Now he travels the country playing with various symphonies for an interesting concert concept. He also gives weekly FB concerts from his home studio, something he started during the pandemic and continues today.

The road to Baltimore needs repaving! Wow! What a bumpy ride and not great for someone who exhibits motion sickness. This is new to me and I have to be honest, I don’t like it! We had a great time enjoying Michael’s music and watching the conductor’s ‘antics’ as he directed the orchestra. The drummer was also in Movin’ Out. The saxophone player was great. Michael travels with his own guys – keyboard/guitar; lead guitar; bass guitar, drummer and horn player. I’m not sure what some of the people expected of the concert but I did hear some comments that maybe they were better off staying home. I’m guessing the comments were from loyal patrons of the BSO. But we came to enjoy and hear Michael’s music and we did! I think his busy schedule may be creeping up on him as he was having a bit of a problem hitting some of the higher notes. One of the favorite pieces was one that Michael wrote about music riffs. It was a bit weird to hear professionally trained concert musicians playing In-a-gadda-da-vida for sure! LOL No pictures were allowed but my sneaky photographer grabbed a few anyway! We had great seats!

One thing I will say about the venue is that the ushers are amazing. My walker was delivered to my row at intermission and at the end of the concert. It was tagged with my seat location. The venue is handicap accessible. The parking is a short walk away but handicap parking spaces are very limited. Get there plenty early if you need one.

I swear this guy doesn’t age! He’s 51 and looks about 30.

Once again, Karen’s boss has been very generous with her approval for time off even though she glitched this particular schedule. She truly understands ‘family before job’. Karen’s colleagues have been very supportive and understanding as well. It’s a small department so whenever someone is on vacation or personal days, scheduling coverage becomes a nightmare. Thank you guys (and yes, they are all guys except Karen!) for your generosity and understanding.

Music is one of the only things in this world that you can count on.
No matter how you feel, there is always that one song that can match your mood.

–unknown

                                                                            

C A U T I O N!! Picture Overload! 

Day 1 & 2
Prague, Czech Republic

After long overnight flights with 2 layovers, we finally arrived in Prague. We met the Viking team and transferred to the Hilton Prague for our 2-night stay. We also met our program director for the cruise, Claudia, and received a welcome introduction of what to expect. 

We hopped on the HoHo outside our hotel on day 2. We like taking these tours as you see more than you would if you walked around only one area. Plus the commentary gives you points of interest along the way with history and local tidbits. 

Prague is a Czech Republic city that has rebuilt itself after fires, floods and conflict. It is also known as the City of 100 Spires. The architecture on the buildings is amazing. The cobblestones not so much! The one thing I’ve wanted to see is the famous astronomical clock. The crowds show up early to view this historical clock. We decided to sit at a cafe and have a beer to add to Karen’s Beers of the World collection and wait for the next hour, luckily missing a rain shower. Everyone wanted to see the clock so once again the crowds formed. Even being at what we felt was up close was still in the back of the crowd so to speak. Each man, woman and child for themselves!  The crowd cheered and clapped as a bride emerged from the church as the clock struck the hour. 

After viewing the clock we battled the crowd and headed to the river for an included boat tour. A mix up on the departure time found us eating a light lunch in a floating restaurant river-side.  The hour long cruise pointed out some sites we might not have seen and we sailed under the Charles bridge, known for its statues. After the tour, we headed back to our nearby hotel to catch the last red line HoHo circuit. Time was quickly flying by so we did not get off again for further exploration. Had we not messed up on the boat tour time we would have been able to see a couple more interesting sites along this route’s itinerary. 

I love looking at the windows and doors in these old and medieval towns. There’s so much to see in the details and pride of workmanship that sadly is a long-gone tradition. Now, people seem to want sleek lines and glass/mirrored glass. Gone is the character of centuries ago. 

An interesting note – inside the round towers are actually square towers.The round tower was built around the square tower to help protect it from enemy fire. 

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Note: The double decker HoHo buses have a handicap ramp that is quite steep. The driver was helpful traversing the steep incline both on the bus and off. 

Day 3 & 4
Bamburg, Germany

Long day on a bus from Prague to the north to Bamberg. Hilton Prague was ok. Grocery and restaurants nearby. Walking distance to old town. They also had a great gift shop with local ornaments and crafts. 

Leisurely walking group tour of Bamberg. Our guide had the most unique laugh. More killer cobblestones. Karen added her first smoked beer to her Beers of the World collection. Postcard and stamp purchased but no post box found to mail it. Time for our life jacket drill on board then lunch then nap then more food for dinner.  

Had lunch with passengers from Minneapolis, Minnesota and Canterbury, England which included great conversation. I have a new best friend even if I make her slow down!

43 locks to pass through on our way to Trier. As we pass through the countryside it is reminiscent of the Erie Canal in New York State. The shore is always within reach. 

We decided to forego the educational enrichment talk and catch up on lost sleep. Onward to the evening port.

Definitely different than when the Christmas market is here (Nuremberg)!

Day 5
Wurzburg, Germany

On our way through the night and locks to Wurzburg. Looks so different from the winter Wurzburg we visited a few years ago. Then we were only interested in the Christkindl markt. Today we saw so much more. We started with a short bus ride from our docking location to the Residenz for a guided tour. What opulence! I can’t imagine ever living with so much gold leaf! Afterwards we chose to break away from the group and explore on our own. We listened to the melodious church bells at noon then went in search of lunch. Another bratwurst minus the sauerkraut (?) and no beer. We are in Wine Country now! So another stop was made at the Ratskellar beneath what reminds us of Rapunsel’s tower. A post box was found to mail Karen’s Bamberg post card and we saw new friends from the ship. We all walked back along the river to our docking location and enjoyed a few minutes on our verandah before nap time. After talking with the program director we decided to skip the day long tour into Heidelberg. Too much busing everywhere and time constraints. We will stay on board and enjoy the leisurely relocation of the boat to Miltenberg.We need a sea day. I’m getting too old for cobblestones and organized tours. Above picture is of Zeppelin Field, where Hitler addressed the troops. Today it is used as a gathering spot for the community to enjoy picnics and concerts, etc. 

Excursion: Wurzburg Residenz and Walk

Day 6
Heidelberg, Germany

Another almost sleepless night of locks and bumps in the night. Lots of ship traffic on the river overnight. It was interesting watching the fog roll in across the countryside.  Taking an easy out day today. No guided excursions. Just staying on the longboat and relaxing with a few others who opted out of Heidelberg. It was a tough decision but I’m glad we made it. Heard there was a very winding 2 hour bus ride and that’s just not for me. Also heard the plans for the rest of the day and given the option to sail during the day and dock in a cute medieval town, we chose what was behind door #2. 

Our day in Miltenberg was very nice. Except of course for the killer cobblestones. We walked from the ship to the Main Street and enjoyed the architecture and the many beautiful half timber houses. Many of these houses sported window boxes overflowing with colorful flowers. We found a cute ice cream shop that served spaghetti eis (pronounced ice) and beer of all things! Our friends, Paul and Kim, turned us on to the delicious ice cream treat last year. Once the rest of the ship returned from their Heidelberg excursion we had our port talk before a night of German specialties for dinner. Even with the catch-up naps I was still tired and had an early bedtime. Only to be awakened again by passing through the many locks and bumping along as we did pass through. A definite treat was the glass blower brought on board for the evening’s entertainment. What skill! It took many years to perfect and build his name and collection of beautiful glass. We actually brought some home…no surprise there!

Damage report – I stubbed my big toe against the wheel of the wheelchair. You won’t believe the size of that blood filled blister! It surrounded my entire big toe. Normally we just let nature take its course but not this time. Too painful. Too large. Hard to put a sandal on over it. So we popped the big bruiser and worked at draining the fluids inside. We travel with a first aid kit which came in handy with antiseptic wipes, antibiotic ointment and extra large bandaids. Good news is no more pressure and it’s healing. It’s just always something with me. Nurse Karen is dealing with these travel interruptions very well. 

Toe update – Had to visit the podiatrist once home as the blister refilled. Currently under a doctor’s care for this boo boo. The big orange shower boot is a hoot! 

Additional report – remember my incident on day #1 in Lisbon? Where the seat came down on my knee? Well that is still causing problems for me. My latest trick is to place a lidocaine patch on my knee then wrap the knee area with an ace bandage. Definitely helps especially with all the cobblestones we seem to find and climbing bus steps and gang planks.

Hint #1 – upset tummy? Too much rich cruise food? Get some ginger chews, available on Amazon. No more chalky aftertaste from OTC antacids. Yes! They work! We picked up our first bag on our recent Pennsylvania Dutch road trip.

Hint #2 – not sure if cruising is for you?  Motion sickness on those darn bus excursions? Waters a bit rough on your ocean cruise? Get some Bonine.  Also available on Amazon. You can chew the tablet or just take with water.

Day 7
Mainz, Germany

Our scenic cruising through the Rhine castle corridor was amazing! To the left and to the right castle after castle appeared around every bend of the river. After leaving many of the passengers off the boat for an organized tour we did our own thing and visited St. Stephen’s church with more beautiful Chagall stained glass windows.

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Castles and Vineyards along the way. My question is how do they harvest the grapes on those hills?

You know your vacation is coming to an end when you have the disembarkation talk. And yet another killer bus and walking excursion we opted to stay on board and for me to catch up on lost sleep yet again. Hopefully with no more locks in our future I will sleep better unless of course I have my days and nights mixed up. 

Day 8
Cochem, Germany

Cochem is a charming town with yes, another castle on a hill and melodic church bells ringing. We enjoyed our evening on our own ending with flammkuchen (cracker pizza) at a lovey cafe riverside. As the sun set and the town lights came on it was a beautiful reflection on the water. The castle was aglow on overlooking the city.  I can trace my heritage on my father’s side to Cochem where my 8-generation grandfather is from. Our ship was docked at the end, farthest away which didn’t make me too happy as there were no lights for the road. Having limited vision does not help when it’s dark. I soon became a headlight as I held Karen’s  iPhone flashlight in front to help watch for potholes and other road hazards.

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Day 9
Trier, Germany

Time to pack and be ready for the 6:30 am luggage call. Dirty clothes in this bag. Clean outfits for Paris in that bag. Disassemble Rollie and put in another bag. So happy we could bring Rollie as it was helpful on the ship to be independent and get around.  Packing to leave Paris will be lots easier I think. Dinner and maybe an evening stroll around Trier tonight. We’ll see. I still am not a fan of going out at night. 

Great!  More passengers are complaining of being sick with colds and congestion. Please do not let me catch what they have! Karen is sick. She usually can recover quickly. Much more so than I. 

UPDATE: Two weeks later and we are both still suffering from whatever the heck this thing we caught is. Cough! Cough!

We never made it to Trier our last night. We were blocked in at the dock by another boat and then I’m not sure why we didn’t leave and move on down the river until much later. Woke up in Trier but could not leave boat due to time constraints to board the bus for the long ride to our Paris hotel location. Hope we don’t encounter any road delays as we have a private night tour scheduled. Tomorrow we plan to tour with a HoHo bus to see as much of Paris as we can. Breakfast in the hotel then the rest of our meals are on our own. Sunday we depart for the airport and flights home. Happy we are flying into DCA as it’s in our backyard so no long car rides.

Day 10
Paris, France

The bus ride to Paris was way too long. One stop at the American Cemetery in Luxembourg and another quick stop in Reims. Had just enough time in Reims to see another church with beautiful stained glass windows, go potty and share a quick burger with Karen. Back on the bus again. I officially dislike bus excursions! This one was necessary however if I wanted to get to Paris. Finally we arrived. Check-in was quick. Up to the room. Back down for a quick bite. Then for Karen’s surprise to me. A private night tour! Paris in lights. Montmartre, George V Four Seasons Palace Hotel, Arc de Triumph, Champs Elysees and of course Cathedrale Notre-Dame deParis, stiil under reconstruction and the illumination of the Eiffel Tower – seen twice! We had a great driver, Kevin a young local, who actually turned into our tour guide as well. All too soon we were back to the hotel totally exhausted after a very long day. 

Day 2 in Paris found us taking an Uber to the Eiffel Tower for our tour. Pretty cool but busy as all get out. Afterwards we hopped on the big red HoHo bus for a ride around Paris. Hopped off to eat and go potty then walked to another dock for our tour boat on the Seine. Yay for girl power!  Our captain was female! Another full day in 90 degree temps. Less cobblestones but more people to dodge and gently remind who was in line first or who got handicap seating. Ugh. It gets ugly out there sometimes. Another late night dinner, say goodbye to new friends, repack and get 3 hours sleep before early morning luggage pickup and transfer to the airport. We were put on the wrong transfer bus and weren’t told until we were off the bus and got our luggage. Gave the driver our luggage back and reboarded the bus to get to the right terminal. *Sigh*

What did we learn on this trip?  Well, bus excursions are not for me. Not all busses had front row handicap seating. Some drivers automatically lower the front of the bus to help with the climb up and exit down the bus steps. Some do not and will not. With the amount of handicap passengers on this tour, it always amazed me that ‘non-handicap’ people claimed the front seat. By handicap, I’m referring to those passengers who have mobility concerns and use assisted devices. Others had motion sickness and other unknown concerns. Still, I believe the front seats should be reserved for those in need. Some passengers who grabbed the front seats offered to move to a different seat, which I thought was generous and kind. I never took them up on it though as there was available seating without going to the back of the bus. 

Paying extra for premium economy plane seats does have its perks. But when the person in front of you reclines their seat for the entire trip and the aisle seats are very solid on the edge it’s very difficult for someone like me to be able to stand and get out of my seat. The onboard lavatories are so very small. Again, difficult for me. The handicap lavs are usually too far from our seats to easily get too. Also the airline food has been pretty inedible. 

I have a feeling this was my last trip of this type. It’s taken a toll on me. I know since 9/11 and Covid many things have changed. One thing I don’t care for is extended plane rides with 2 or more layovers. Even paying extra with cruise lines doesn’t give a better itinerary. I guess the days of direct flights have flown the coop!

And then home sweet home. What a trip! 

People we met along the way – who ‘joined’ Our Red Dress World Tour and wore the red dress pin in support –
Tucson, Arizona
Iowa
Los Angeles
South Carolina
Wichita, Kansas
Chicago, Illinois
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Columbus, Ohio
Connecticut
North Carolina
Georgia
San Diego
Vancouver, Canada
Pennsylvania
Australia
Canterbury, England
Probably more that I have forgotten! Sorry!

Dance before the music is over.
Live before your life is over. 

Health Update – For those who are interested…

My cardiologist team (who has since abandoned me) was not happy that I am traveling against their expressed wishes, but it’s the way I want to go out…doing what I love and seeing things I never dreamed of seeing as a child. I have good days and not so good days just like anyone else. But 10 months after I was expected to be gone by the doctors, I’m still here! I rest a lot and tire easily. But I still get up in the morning and do my best even if I don’t always put a bra on! (TMI?) And that’s all I can do. Surgery on my leg has been canceled.

So thanks for traveling with us. I hope you are enjoying it as much as we are! We are busy making memories!

Looking for Chapters 1-13 and all other blog posts? Please visit 20Steps.travel.blog! 

Next amazing trip? Not for a couple of months yet. But don’t despair! We are still traveling maybe just closer to home for a while and experiencing as much as we can with the time allowed. Keep watching for your blog email to show up! 

Another Oceania Cruise…
more memories to make and pictures to take!

We booked this cruise about a year ago, long before my health took a downward spiral. But my health is not stopping me from traveling and doing the best I can, while I can. So, I’m sliding this into the world tour agenda as Chapter Twelve.

Itinerary

Day 1
Southampton, England

We begin this newest chapter of Our Red Dress World Tour with an overnight flight into London Gatwick airport. We sailed quickly through customs and immigration and connected with our luggage and an Oceania rep. We were soon on our way to Southampton and our home away from home on Oceania’s MS Marina. As a courtesy, Oceania treated us to breakfast at a nearby hotel. We claimed the last 2 seats on an early bus transfer to the ship. 

We had upgraded our cabin to concierge level and were promised an 11 am stateroom ready. That soon became 1:30 pm as we checked in. But we were on the ship! Headed to Horizons bar and ordered a couple of drinks. We were met by an excellent bartender Artem, who continued to take good care of us throughout our voyage.

In our stateroom was a chilled bottle of champagne waiting for us. Off came the sneakers and socks and on went the cruise footwear of choice – flip flops. We were supposed to receive an Oceania tote bag but our cabin steward knew nothing of it.

Every evening, information about the next days port of call and activities is delivered to the stateroom. There is also a meet the captain and senior staff reception.

Lunch and dinner (after a much needed nap) was taken in the Terrace Cafe. Early to bed. 

Day 2
Sea day otherwise known as catch up on lost sleep day. The entertainment show, Dancing Fool, was excellent. The Dancing Fool lead also checked us in for our muster drill. Muster drill has definitely changed since our early cruise days. No longer do you need to head to a designated area wearing your life jacket. Just check in with staff so you know where your muster station is in case of emergency, watch the safety video in your cabin or at home before leaving and that’s it!

We ate dinner at Toscana dressed in red and then went to the show, then lights out!

FYI – This is probably the best dance/song troupe we’ve enjoyed on many cruises. One of the female singer’s parents were on board for their first cruise. Karen talked to proud papa several times. We also watched him filming his daughter during her performances. This cruise was the culmination of her contract. Kudos to Oceania for making it all happen.

A chance meeting with the captain who is an e-cig smoker BTW and was getting his picture taken with other guests so we said Ok..why not?!

Day3
Gothenburg, Sweden

Gothenburg is the second largest city in Sweden and dates back to the 1600’s. We took the Oceania shuttle to the city center. Walked around (more like bounced around on the cobblestones).  Enjoyed fish and chips at the Irish Embassy. It was a windy day but sunny. 

A note about the weather – I was tracking it for weeks prior to our trip and thought I packed accordingly. Nope! It was much chillier and windier than I was prepared for!

Day 4
Kiel, Germany/Lubeck, Germany

Kiel is one of Germany’s major maritime centers. We took our only organized on-your-own tour to UNESCO Lubeck. We visited a large marzipan shop – the original home of marzipan – and toured their museum. Bought some marzipan to eat and share. Due to the distance, we had limited time in Lubeck, a barrier-free city (Europe’s version of ADA), but definitely not bump free. 

We tried for months to get a response from Oceania to our question about this excursion. We had promises of call backs and email responses but never received an answer. Once on the ship we went to the Shore Excursion desk and asked the same question. Within 24 hours we had our answer – Yes! You can take your foldable wheelchair on this bus excursion.

Day 5
Karlskrona, Sweden

Founded in 1680, Karlskrona is a naval port. This tender port did not seem well organized. There was a significant delay in being able to take the tender into town on an overcast, windy day with a few huge raindrops. Cobblestones are killer bumps. Karlskrona is hilly. Take the next block for an easier grade. We walked around town seeing several UNESCO sites. Beautiful huge kettles full of vibrant flowers decorated this port – it was a site to see! Karen added a local beer to the Beers of the World file. Jacques for dinner at a shared table. Good conversation with our table mates.

Day 6
Stockholm, Sweden

We took the HOHO from the ship’s pier to the ABBA museum and stood in line in the pouring rain to get our tickets and wait for our timed entry. We did duck into a small cafe with first floor WC for some warming tea for me and a beer for Karen. Calling for rain most of the day. We hoped for some Swedish meatballs but nope! No meatballs! Quick pass thru the museum which was fun especially the Silent Disco area. It was so packed that it made navigating with the wheelchair somewhat difficult. Of course the sun was shining after we left the museum and it was time to go back on HOHO and the ship.

Interesting note is that many of the city’s parks today had other uses years ago. For instance hops for the kings beer. Or fruit and vegetable gardens for the palace. After one palace burned down it took over 50 years to rebuild a replacement!

Sail in/out is reminiscent of 1000 Islands with lots of cottages, boats, inlets, islands and patriotic flags.

Word to the wise about ABBA: if you can predetermine your arrival time, buy your tickets in advance. The lines are long and there’s timed entry. The red line HOHO that is available at the ship side terminal drops off and picks up a short walk away from the museum. Had we bought our tickets in advance, we would have missed our timed entry.

Note: Special ticket pricing at ABBA Museum for handicap attendant. Pay for the handicapped person and the attendant gets in free! But watch them because they did not do that even though I was right in front of them until we had them redo it!

Day 7
Helsinki, Finland

Harborside capital city on the Baltic Sea, Helsinki presented a beautiful sunny day with blue skies and wind! Long day in port. Relaxing way to see Helsinki. Enjoyed a harbor cruise, the market square, a concert on the esplanade and HOHO tour. A few rousing games of UNO to complete the day. Saw our first church lighthouse!

Day 8
Tallinn, Estonia

We visited this delightful old town through historical gates. Note that it is simply difficult for mobility travel. There are few ramps off the sidewalks which may be narrow and angled. Lots and lots of cobblestones! Mostly sunny but there was a late morning downpour that didn’t last long. Did some shopping. There is a small clothing market near the shuttle stop with some great items and some lovely stores to shop inside the gates.

For those missing a touch of home there is a McDs and BK just inside the gates. WCs are a bit of a challenge so we paid for a bottle of water at McDs to get the code in order to use the restroom. Another stop was while it was raining and we had refreshments at a cafe with a first floor WC.

Of note most shops have a couple steps up to enter and restaurant bathrooms are either up or down a flight of stairs. Ramp back on the ship was at a steeper angle than previous ports due to time and tide.

Had dinner at Polo Grill. Too much time elapsed between courses. Filet mignon was cooked right but had sinew and was very chewy. The quintet dessert was a nice sampling of cheesecake, key lime pie, apple strudel, chocolate nut brownie with vanilla ice cream and crème brûlée shared with Karen. Too late for a picture! Todays injuries included an ouchie to Karen’s wrist and hip as she manuvered the sidewalks and cobblestones streets while navigating the wheelchair. My lower leg (awaiting surgery) and my knee continued to get abused by the rough and mean cobblestones and bus steps. 

Day 9
Riga, Latvia

After docking before a low bridge we walked into old town. Lots of narrow sidewalks, abandoned scooters, construction, sidewalk cafe tables and more obstructions. Took a break from the debilitating cobblestones and found a pub with same level rest room. Met and had a nice chat with Craig from the Manchester UK area who asked for Karen’s number, but was unsuccessful in obtaining it. LOL Found an ornament for our travel tree. Came back to ship for lunch on the aft deck’s open air dining area. Then nap time. The chef’s Baltic dinner meal didn’t really appeal to us, so room service it was! Soon we set sail to Visby, Sweden. Is there a chance of Swedish meatballs here? Time will tell! Day was sunny with a chance of clouds and a raindrop or two.

Internet is spotty at best in the Baltic Sea area. Looks like and says you are connected but you cannot receive or send anything. 

Day 10
Visby, Sweden

A walled UNESCO city of Visby,  there are gates on 3 sides. The fourth side is on the water. There is about 2 miles of wall with over 30 different towers. Amazing that it still stands since the 1200s. A beautiful old church, now a UNESCO ruin, and a beautiful newer church with wonderful stained glass windows beckoned us inside. WCs are elusive inside the walls but a beer for Karen’s Beers of the World folder can gain access to first floor WCs which may be extremely small and definitely not handicapped accessible or friendly.  Lots of cobblestones and hills inside the wall. A market square is buried deep within the walls down a cobblestone road that is shared with cars. We opted to not go back up the hills to our original entry point but went in search of a different hoho bus stop instead. We ended up taking a nice walk along the outside of the wall and finally found our original drop off point.

Day 11
Klaipeda, Lithuania

A quaint harbor town. By definition of its name, Klaipeda is difficult to walk. All that said the decision to walk or take a HOHO to explore our last stop in Sweden needs to be decided. We have yet to find sweatshirts here or enjoy Swedish meatballs. And of course there is always the search for WCs and postcards. Being on diuretics and traveling is tough!  First world problem I know!

This cruise is winding down. We are waiting to be wowed. The understanding of the crew has been heightened in the difference between Coke Light and Diet Coke. They have both on the ship but insist on bringing me Coke Light which is decidedly a different taste from Diet Coke. I finally had to glitch and speak to a restaurant manager. Hopefully that helped settle it. Plus there are a couple of servers who are now enlightened and are taking care of me. I always ask for a can and a glass of ice. I know when I get a glass of brown liquid delivered instead of what I asked for that it is most likely Coke Light. With over 800 Americans on board, I would have thought they would have had a better understanding. By the end of the cruise, mini bars were being raided for Diet Coke to please the masses!

Not sure how someone goes on a world cruise for weeks or months at a time. How to pack for different climates, bring enough medicine and eat the same rotation of food and on board entertainment just amazes me. There are visas to be considered as well. That’s why we decided to take different smaller trips on a variety of cruise ships. Two weeks is my max. 

After waiting longer than promised for the HOHO bus, we opted for the ship’s shuttle back to the ship. Just in time for a late lunch and nap before our second visit to Polo Grill. We had hoped for better service and food and table mates. Well 1 out of 3 wasn’t the best odds but we met Willy and Kathy from Switzerland and enjoyed our dinner time with them. Sadly the quintet dessert was short 1 sample and the presentation was definitely not the same as the first time, so again no picture. Our server had an attitude I did not appreciate.

No luck with the saffron pancakes, Swedish meatballs and minimal souvenir shops – The things we look for based on research! If you are looking for postcards buy them as you enter the main gates near the shuttle stop. It may be your only opportunity. 

Note: there are multiple time zone changes on an itinerary such as this one.

Hint: if you have an iPhone take the date/time off automatic. Enter the next port of call and your phone will automatically set the time.

Day 12
Ronne, Denmark

The day started with an unexpected rain storm but it turned into a beautiful sunny blue sky, white cloud day which we enjoyed ashore on our own. We took the complimentary shuttle to the Visitors Center and received a map and directions. We also did some retail therapy in town. Sure hope it fits!  If not it will be a nice donation to Green Drop. We finally made it to Afternoon Tea, which was disappointing. Viking may annoy us at times but it does know how to do certain things. Their presentation is much better than Oceania’s. And the food is better as well.

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Karen never found a red mailbox so another postcard not mailed in town but left at the ship’s reception to mail tomorrow from Copenhagen. Early start to our disembarkation day and a long layover in Frankfurt along the way before the final leg to Dulles. 

In town there were smoother coverings over the cobblestone sidewalks which made our rolling travels so much better and easier. Karen added another Beers of the World -Carlsberg. 

Tip: How to head in the right direction of your cabin on your deck when exiting the elevator. If there is a phone or art work on the wall take note. Use it as a directional signal. 

Tip: Internet is generally slow and spotty on board. 

Tip: Hop On, Hop Off (HoHo) buses are a great way to get around in a port. Many times they are available on the dock near the ship. The cost is fair. Some of them may also offer a boat trip.

Day 13
Copenhagen, Denmark

Sadly the amount of time spent in Copenhagen was waiting for the ship to clear and waiting for our flight in the airport. You are whisked off the ship around 7:30AM, claim your luggage, board a bus to the airport and say goodbye to Copenhagen! All in all it was a pretty good trip. I think what sucks the most for us is our hospitality backgrounds and expectations.

We were really wowed by 2 crew members. Artem in Horizons who took very good care of Karen’s beer and wine and my Diet Coke. He always greeted us and I felt like we received special attention. The other crew member was Jonald who helped with the wheelchair at the gang plank on several occasions. A huge thank you to Oceania for providing in-port complimentary shuttle service to city centers. I truly wish Viking did something similar instead of making us go on an included tour to get into the city centers.

A special shout out to passengers who took the time to say hi and have a chat with us:

• Pentagon City, Virginia
• Fargo North Dakota
• Perth, Australia
• Tampa, Florida
• San Diego, California
• Potomac, Maryland
• Northern Michigan
• Evans, Georgia
• Monterrey, Mexico
• Bel Air, Maryland
• Switzerland
• and Elaine, who wore the red dress pin every day!
• Apologies to anyone I forgot – senior-itis!

Shipboard Etiquette – It can be contagious

• Kindness – we are all on vacation, be kind.
• Elevators – Same as on land – wait for people to exit before entering, and hold the door so people can enter without getting hit with the fastly closing doors. If it’s full wait for the next one. And pay attention to who was waiting before you! If possible allow handicapped people to go before you. Don’t rush the doors to get in first! 
• Talking Volume – Not everyone needs to hear your conversation or music or game. Be courteous to those around you.
• Talking during shows and announcements – one of my biggest pet peeves! Sit down, shut up and listen. If you want to talk do it elsewhere. We want to listen!
• Respect for others – Golden rule applies here. Remember, Karma is a bitch!
• If sharing a dining table be on time or cancel if you are not coming. Meals for those on time are delayed, waiting for you. 
• Offer the front seat to handicapped passengers on buses. The steps into the bus are killers enough without having to navigate to the back of the bus. To the few who did this, thank you! Your mama raised you right!
• Mind the noise level in your cabin. Slamming drawers and doors reverberates to other staterooms. 
• Cutting in line whether for information or food is never acceptable. Wait your turn!
• Treating handicapped individuals like they are invisible and it’s not ok to be rude verbally or physically. Help hold passageway doors. Not all doors on the ship are automatic.
• If you know where the smoking sections are and do not want to smell the smoke you do not need to loudly verbalize it. There are many other paths both port and starboard that you can take to your cabin, elevators, restaurants and other areas of the ship to avoid it. Please do so or shut up and hold your breath as you walk by. It’s your choice as well as theirs.
• There was a very loud table next to us talking rudely about handicapped people slowing them down on a Viking excursion. I did not appreciate that at all. But amazingly I kept my mouth shut and didn’t say anything. Ugh! People! Never forget it may be you or a loved one someday. Again, Karma is a bitch.

Where will Chapter 14 take us? Check back later to find out!!

“The most beautiful things in life are not materialistic things.
They’re people and places, memories and pictures.
They’re feelings and moments, tight hugs, smiles and laughter.”

~Unknown